Yes, the most forgotten precious is time, the life counter, that never stops! The one that can be stolen so easily from us. The worst part is that when we contribute to that loss of precious time.
Time Travel
Go back in time, to when you were a little kid, where life meant Dad’s hugs, Mom’s love, and siblings’ care. Time to play, to have fun, to eat what you desire, and your wishes are somehow granted. This could be your time, and it may not. Each one has their own time. It might be similar to others, but it is always unique to its owner.
Childhood Moments: Nurturing Time with Loved Ones
Check today, how are you using your time with your kiddos? Is it as you wished? or as they wished? Are you spending time with them, or what is left, if there is any, spending it with them?
What are your priorities? How is your kid having his childhood? What kind of memories is he crafting? What is your daughter seeing in you?
Today, I attended a delightful school party with my youngest kiddo in his class. He showed me what he wrote about me and his brother, and it melted my heart. The love and hugs were crafted in his school book. He wrote about how his brother goes out and plays with him (my older son is 10 years older than my youngest) and how much he enjoys his brother’s love. Regarding me, he wrote about my hugs and love. Those words brought some tears to my eyes, but I couldn’t let him see that. Instead, he received another big hug from me in his classroom, and he gave me a big one too. It was a priceless moment, and he felt so proud and loved.
Childhood Moments: Nurturing Time with Loved Ones
Sometimes, our kids need a little from us – a hug, a kiss, some time spent together, being around the table during supper. Family time brings tradition and authenticity to our kids’ lives, providing them with support and clarity.
Be there for them. If you can’t, tell them why. But don’t make it a habit; it will come back to you when you find yourself alone in the coming days.
Here’s how to tackle that and not to get into that forgotten time: the life counter:
Priorities and Parental Influence: Shaping Memories
As a father, prioritize your life schedule, leaving empty spots for your loved ones.
For my family – wife and kids – gather them around the table from time to time, sharing a traditional meal, having a movie night, and attending mass as a family. This is how you create bonds despite life’s commitments.
Take each family member seriously, asking about their well-being at work, school, or college. Lend them an ear and encourage them to express themselves, ensuring they have the time to do so. They know that you will always be there for them.
I prioritize spending time with my family members, encouraging them to release their stresses, share their thoughts, and express care and love. This approach has significantly helped them individually and strengthened our family bonds to overcome various situations.
The Value of Time: Advocating for Meaningful Connections
In my roles as a father, professional speaker, and life coach, I consistently strive to find precious moments with my family. Time is fleeting, and at 50, I’m aware that I don’t know how much time I have left on this earth. However, I do my best to contribute less to time being stolen by distractions around me.
Recognizing the preciousness of time, I advocate for loving your spouse more, playing and hugging your kids more often, spending quality time with your mom, sharing laughter with your dad, and enjoying meaningful moments with your siblings. Time is a valuable resource – make the most of it, before one by one, we become a memory in a frame, on a shelf!
